Stress has many causes. One cause is feeling overwhelmed with everything on our to do list, especially the ones in our head and our subconscious selves. The shear number of things to do can create stress. So can guilt when we don’t feel like we are getting enough done.

We can reduce the stress caused by being overwhelmed and by “productivity guilt.” I define productivity guilt as the guilt we feel when we don’t believe we got enough done or the right things done. Here are a few things you can do to get more done with less stress.

This is part one of a two part series on promoting effective parent and school partnerships. Part 2 focuses on Seven High-Touch Communication Strategies.

During new parent orientation, I ask parents to pray for us because we need the wisdom of Solomon in making good decisions. After all, as I tell them, “We only deal with people’s children, money, and religion: what could possibly go wrong?” 

This lighthearted acknowledgment elicits hearty laughter, creates a relaxed atmosphere, and conveys an important truth. As school leaders, we deal with three of the most important things in parents’ lives—their children, their religion, and their money. And depending on what is going on around us and what might be said in a classroom, we can throw politics into the mix. What could go wrong?!

Indeed, things do go wrong or are perceived to have gone wrong. Either way, too often parents, teachers, and administrators find themselves at odds and engaged in tension and conflict. My purpose in this article is not to address the reasons for the tensions, which are many. Instead, I will focus on practical things we can do to promote positive partnerships with parents. 

In Part 1 of this two part series, I outlined Six Principles to Promote Parent and School Partnerships. In Part 2 I am focusing on Seven High-Touch Communication Strategies. 

Good communication fosters confidence, trust, and positive relationships. Poor communication does the opposite. Promoting a positive partnership with parents is ultimately not about the programs we put in place, though those are valuable. It is about fostering positive relationships. Such relationships are best nourished by consistently and warmly engaging with parents. When strong relationships are encouraged, a strong partnership with the school forms. This is honoring to the Lord, life-on life transforming, and ultimately enhances the school’s ability to fulfill its mission.

High-touch communication is essential to developing healthy partnerships with our school parents. While we cannot always control how others communicate to and with us, we can certainly work on responding in ways that effectively address the issues at hand—as well as do our part to foster positive relationships into the future.

While technology has its place, it must be kept in its place. More often than not, our over reliance on high tech communication diminishes the effectiveness of our communication and impedes the school-to-home partnership. Here are seven specific strategies for developing high-touch communication, which if applied consistently will go a long way to fostering an enduring healthy partnership with your parents.

Having a good conscience, so that, when you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ may be put to shame. 1 Peter 3:16

When it comes to a worldview that encourages judgmental, legalistic attitudes, it’s hard to beat atheism. Maybe that’s because it’s a perspective that hasn’t room for biblical concepts of sin, repentance, redemption and spiritual rebirth, and so has to depend on a list of externally imposed, arbitrary rules to hold society together. So it’s no surprise that in North America’s functionally atheistic society - especially in its media - legalistic, condemning judgements are the popular pastimes du jour: 

Evangelical Christians? = “BAD!”